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EXCLUSIVE: Sextortionist Jessica Wolcott Threatens Ex-Husband

December
6

Jessica WolcottQuick, what’s worse: blackmailing a married Pepsi executive for $125,000 or threatening the career of your ex-husband of 4-years, an Air Force veteran who you already stole $30,000 from?

Tough call, but after talking to Kyle Strait, the former hubby of 22-year-old grifter extraordinaire Jessica Wolcott, one thing’s clear: this girl is a seriously screwed up scam artist. As Strait explained over the phone, Wolcott emailed him yesterday (possibly violating a court order that she not use computers) and said that if Strait didn’t stop talking, his superiors at the Air Force would be asked to comment on the situation. What’s more, she claimed that reporters are “getting ‘her side’ of the story and that everyone will really know the truth when it hits TV in a couple months.”

We here at Suburbarazzi are sort of impatient, though, so we asked Strait to tell more of his side first. All the sordid details after the jump.


As he puts it, the two were only married and living together in Maryland for about one year, during which Wolcott began cheating on him with other men. He kicked her out, demanded that the affairs stop, and then, eventually, took her back. Bad idea.

Shortly thereafter Strait was sent for an overseas tour of duty in Portugal. Wolcott then cleaned out his bank account and began siphoning off his pay checks. When he called to protest, “She threatened me, saying that she was going to call me boss and tell them I wasn’t supporting my wife. I was the perfect mark being in the military.”

“The irony is, she was always bashing me and telling me I was too concerned with money,” he told us. “She would blow up and say, ‘money isn’t everything.’ Meanwhile she was bleeding me dry.” After returning to the States, Strait discovered that she was still cheating on him and had taken all of his money. “She ruined my life. There was a point when I wanted to end it all.” Instead, he made the wise decision to kick her out for good—thus, unintentionally, marking the beginning of her life as a semi-professional grifter.

According to Strait, Wolcott used eight different middle names—Michelle, Monica, Elizabeth, Dakota, Rameda, Rachel, and Tatiana (pat on the back for that Russian mail-order bride reference we made last week). Apparently she also has a whopper of an India name: Ewakailakaipu.

Most impressive of all: “She has upwards of 50 different aliases on the Internet. All of her names and backstories are different groups of friends,” Strait explained. “She’s a high-school dropout, but she’s scary intelligent. She somehow keeps all her stories in order. She’s had years to refine the act.” Despite being estranged, Strait and Wolcott remained married for the next three years, only getting officially divorced in 2006.

Strait tried to get Wolcott psychiatric help, but he says she never followed through with it. And he’s certain that Gary Wandschneider, the Pepsi executive who lost his job after details of his affair with Wolcott and her extortion scheme surfaced, isn’t her only victim. “She makes a habit of having multiple relationships with people at the same time. I have little doubt that she has info on others guys out there, but they’re probably too afraid to step up,” he added.

What will be the next chapter in the Sextortionist saga? Will another beverage executive or Craigslist perv be outed? Will another of Wolcott’s former paramours reveal himself to Suburbarazzi? Will Wolcott team up with Fox and Regan to fill the gaping scandal hole left by the unpublished “If I Did It”? However this plays out, please join us and Jess for a drink!

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(photos courtesy of Kyle Strait)

This entry was posted on Wednesday, December 6th, 2006 at 4:23 pm by Ted Mann.
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35 Responses to “EXCLUSIVE: Sextortionist Jessica Wolcott Threatens Ex-Husband”

  1. Anna

    If you want the real “next chapter,” read Without Conscience by Bob Hare. “Slutty” is an old high school gossip term. She’s clearly a psychopath. There’s no treatment but prison for that particular problem. Both men and women, old, young and in-between, need to steer clear of her.

  2. Stephanie

    There is trash in the world, and then there are pigs that cheat. Usually it’s the man who is the pig, but in this case it’s the cheap slut who can’t keep her pants up. Marriage is just a piece of paper to the young idiots born after the 70’s. I don’t know one couple that stays together anymore. Why would they? Society makes it easy for pigs like this !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  3. Josh

    This woman almost scammed us out of $50 at Prosper.com Thankfully, the interest rate got bid down so we got bid out of the loan. Her mother scammed Prosper lenders out of tens of thousands.

  4. dom

    hi. this is jess’s exfiance…. two years we were together, one year while she was with kyle… which i found out later, from kyle. and in the comments it mentions her mother….. yeah well i believe they are partners in this, and all the “family business.” you will see us all on inside edition…. and if anyone knows anyone who wants to take on the task of editing the book, and helping with production, let me know. lol.
    take care, and steer clear of lying, conning, individuals like jess. they are everywhere.
    -daa

  5. ASHLEY

    IN ADDITION TO ALL THE LIES ALREADY PUBLISHED ABOUT THE ‘SO CALLED’ “DR.WOLCOTT MD” SHE HAS ALSO CLAIMED TO HAVE ACCESSED MY CURRENT BOYFIRENDS MEDICAL RECORDS AND HAS ALSO TRIED TO ALLEDGE THAT HE HAS HEPATITIS…. AND FOR EVERONES INFORMATION HE DOESNT HAVE HEPATITIS AND THIS IS MY STRONG BELIEF THAT THIS WAS JUST ANOTHER WAY FOR HER TO TRY TO MAKE A WEDGE BETWEEN ME AND MY EX BOYFRIEND ONLY BECAUSE I WAS A THREAT TO HER BECAUSE OF ME AND MY EX BOYFRIENDS STRONG PAST TOGETHER. AT THE TIME OF THESE ALLEGATIONS MY EX BOYFRIEND AND I WERE STILL TRYING TO WORK THINGS OUT.

  6. Dan

    Actually ran into Jessica last week at BWI Airport. Recognized her waiting at the baggage claim area. To make darn sure it was her, I yelled “Hey Jess” while facing a random other direction, and sure enough she (and nobody else) not only turned to look but stared me down.

    My gf tried to get a cell phone pic because she didn’t think anyone would believe that we really saw her, but Jess saw her and got all wigged out (understandably) and started covering her face. Probably thought we were suburbarzzis, lol!

    OK, I want a biscuit now, haha…

  7. A Friend

    The only reason any of you are saying bad things about Jess is because you didn’t like her for some reason that has nothing to do with any of this way before. For instance Dom wants her back but she doesn’t want him, Kyle wants her back but she doesn’t want him, and as far as Ashley (the girl that wrote a comment above) i got a lot of shit on her so i have no idea why she is running her mouth when none of it is true. Jess has never threatened Ashley as she says in the interview that she took with the media, it was actually the other way around in fact Ashley got kicked out of a bar in Huntingdon because she was threatening Jess’s life, and mysteriously her ex boyfriends bike was kicked over that night i wonder who did that? but that was only one time there’s many more. As far as Jess stealing the ex-boyfriend from Ashley that’s not true either they been broke up for several months and the reason they broke up and stayed apart was because Ashley cheated and lied to him. BUT AS YOU SEE ALL OF YOU THAT WRITE THE BAD COMMENTS ABOUT HER FAIL TO MENTION THE SHIT YOU DO, HEH YOU’RE ALL NO BETTER. Well that’s enough for now i don’t want keep typing about Ashley and everyone else because I’ll be here all night with the shit i got on you. None of you know what your talking about you need to get your facts straight don’t you realise its the media they will post anything (true or not) just to make a dollar SO YOU WANT MY ARTICLE HERE IT IS SHE IS INOCENT UNTIL PROOVEN GUILTY SO LEAVE HER ALONE GET A LIFE Oh and Dan buddy you didn’t see Jess at BWI i know that for a fact stop trying to be a hero

  8. Kyle

    Jessica admitted guilt so she is guilty and you obviously don’t know her like we do so why not inquire of our knowledge on her before defending her. It may wind up saving you. Unfortunately, like us, you won’t listen to anything anyone has to say about Jess b/c of what she tells you about them. Typically, what Jessica blames others for is what she is in the process of doing to you. Give it time and you’ll come to realize that you were just another pawn. Sorry. Jessica?

  9. Mercer_james@yahoo.com

    Jesscia is a con. I know that personally, and I have plenty of nude pics and a video along with emails to prove. Email me and I will send you a few. She needs to be punished.

  10. Mercer_james2005@yahoo.com

    Corrected email address!!!

  11. Ashley

    I received a phone call a couple days ago from a friend back in Huntingdon (whom Jessica also befriended at one point) to get on this site because Jessica or someone close to her had written a comment to me. So here I am visiting Jessica’s celebrity page which I thought i could put behind me as of Feb 14, but here it is April and it pops up again. Does it ever end with this girl? I didnt think it would be this hard to get her out of my life. When Kyle said it took 4 yrs to shake her off….i believe it now! In reference to my article regarding the bar incident, the media heard the ENTIRE STORY. They just didnt publish it all. Theres not enough paper! I never threatened Jessica Wolcotts life as the comment above says….are you defaming my character again???However, I would like to say Jessica never befriended me as the article says.
    I have been informed by multiple friends of jessicas current boyfriend as well as multiple friends of my own that jessica and her boyfriend continue to slander and defame me. Multiple people have told me that both jess and her boyfriend told them and other people that I sent death threats through the internet (trace the IP addy) at work, they have alleged that i knocked over his motorcyle, trashed his apartment, and did drugs which caused the death of our child (i have autopsy papers from the hospital that I gave birth to my son that states otherwise). I will be more that happy to furnish the autopsy report to anyone who wants to see proof. How could you use such a low blow and bring the death of my child into the hateful, hurtful slander that the both of you continue to spread? That portrays your true character in my opinion. I also have a verizon statement that i would be more than happy to furnish to put an end to the allegation of the text messages. The verizon statement shows the date that i changed my phone number as well as the date that i disabled my text messaging package to avoid these allegations. Amazingly, the text messages Jess furnished are dated after my package had been disabled and are dated AFTER my cell # had been changed!!! So how was she receiving those texts from a phone with a disable package and from my old #????Huntingdon is a small town. I am still in contact with everyone back home. Therefore there are multiple people that could testify to the slander and defamation of character that both Jessica and her boyfriend continue to spread.
    Oh and for the record, I work behind lead lined walls (NO CELL PHONE SERVICE), cameras are not in patient care areas( THAT IS ILLEGAL AND VIOLATES PATIENT PRIVACY), and i dont go outside at work b/c i do not get a scheduled lunch break..i eat when i can. And lastly, we do not have internet access in our work area. We dont need the internet b/c that has nothing to do WITH PATIENT CARE. It has been 2 yrs since my ex (jess’s current boyfriend) and i have split. I am sure 3 people in a relationship is a crowd. So please let me out of it. This is the only way my innocence can be heard.

  12. amendment

    Cameras are not in patient care areas( THAT IS ILLEGAL AND VIOLATES PATIENT PRIVACY)....as you should know being a self proclaimed M.D.

  13. Bill

    Ashley,

    As others have probably pointed out, Jessica has all the markings of being a sociopath. There’s no way to redeem her, she completely lacks a conscience and therefore has no remorse for her actions. If I may recommend a book on the subject, take a look at “The Sociopath Next Door,â€? by Martha Stout. The first three quarters of the book is an excellent primer on sociopathy—although she veers off target at the end of the book by delving into politics. The ending aside, you’ll probably get a lot of “ah ha!â€? moments if you read it, and hopefully will give you a better understanding of what the heck causes a person like Jessica to do the things she does.

    In case you’re wondering, I have no relation to this situation other than the fact that I have been following it from afar. I’ve dealt with sociopaths in the past (specifically in a couple of business ventures), and as a result, sociopathy has become a subject of interest to me.

    The best advice anyone can give in these situations is this: Stay away from sociopaths. Do all you can to distance yourself from her and move on with your life. You’ll never win playing her game.

    Bill

  14. ANDREA

    HEY EVERYONE.. SO I CAME ACROSS THIS WEBSITE AND OF COURSE LIKE EVEYONE ELSE STARTED READING THE COMMENTS AND FOUND A FEW OF THEM VERY INTRESTING… LIKE THE ONES FROM ‘ASHLEY’ NOT REALLY SURE ASHLEY WHO, BUT ANYWAYS.. YOU WROTE A COMMENT LIKE YOU WERE WRITING A WHOLE CHAPTER IN A NOVEL, YOU SOUND LIKE A 10 YR OLD SCHOOL GIRL WHINING OVER SOME BULLSHIT, ITS NOT THAT SERIOUS, GROW UP.. AND AS FOR THE COMMENT KYLE MADE ABOUT PEOPLE “NOT KNOW JESS LIKE YOU DO” I’LL TELL YOU WRITE NOW I KNOW HER ALOT BETTER THEN YOU DO, 16 YEARS BETTER TO BE EXACT, SO DONT FRONT LIKE YOU KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT HER.. IF YOU ASK ME, EVERYTHING THAT GOT “TAKEN” FROM YOU BY JESS WAS YOUR OWN DAMN FAULT, YOUR THE ONE WHO CAME TO MY HOUSE AND PICKED HER UP AND TOOK HER TO DC WITH YOU, AND YOU GOT BURNT SO NOW YOU WANNA BITCH.. AND TO EVERYONE ELSE.. DONT JUDGE THE GIRL IF YOU DONT KNOW HER, LEAVE THAT UP TO GOD AIGHT! WORRY BOUT UR DAMN SELF..

  15. So sad

    In regards to the comment from “Andrea”, are you an idiot? You sound like you just stepped off the short bus. In regards to Jessica and her apparent sociopathic tendencies, yeah, I have seen it firsthand. Her shady, unethical, scandalous behavior is only the tip of the iceberg. This girl will stop at nothing to get what she wants. She preys on the weak and invents stories to confuse and manipulate those she controls. She is like a skanky, white trash, puppet master. While I must give her credit for persistence and ambition, I must also say that she’s not as cunning as some make her out to be. She is a textbook pathological liar, and most people with a head on their shoulders can spot nuts like her from a mile away. I dare say that anyone who has been (or will be) ensnared in one of her webs, deserves whatever they get. Those who want to be deceived are.

  16. ANDREA

    so much i could say to you “so sad” but im not even gonna waste my time, i’ve already wasted enough writing this…

  17. oh hi andrea

    Oh hi Andrea!! Andrea is one of the first people that told me of Jessica’s lying. Of course Jess told me it was Andrea who was lying. Um so yea I wanted to bitch about it, she’s had it coming, but why you bitchin homeslice dawg? Sounds like you’re angry cuz you knew her longer. I’m sorry I didn’t give you the proper attention….have some cheese. Longer doesn’t mean better. How often were you on the receving end of her BS? Oh that’s right, you were an enforcer of Jess’s lies when she needed you. kthxbye!!!

  18. for entertainment purposes

    http://www.nypost.com/seven/05012007/news/nationalnews/soda_jerk_beauty_in_bar_bash_nationalnews_dan_mangan.htm

  19. reply

    to whoever wrote the “oh hi andrea” message.. I’m not going to waste my time online, but I will waste time saying this one thing, ok “homeslice dawg”, first of all—homeslice dawg.. are you serious? The fact that you even took the time to type that stupid shit shows me how lame you really are. And the 2nd thing I have to say to you is—you obviously know me personaly if I supposly “told you” anything about jessica so why do you stop writing it and confront me to my face? Or are you going to contuine to be a scary bitch and just talk shit?

  20. Andrea

    I will continue to be a scary bitch and talk shit b/c I am really lame and am wasting so much time writing this. Go eat another twinky Andrea.

  21. ANDREA

    for your sake i hope this isnt who i think it is..b/c next time i see you its on n poppin.. fake ass lame ass scared bitch.. be a woman 4 once

  22. Andrea

    I lol’d

  23. wow

    She is a textbook pathological liar, and most people with a head on their shoulders can spot nuts like her from a mile away… Well put “so sad”... I knew jess about 2 years ago or so… It just surprises me to see that anyone would stand up for this girl after what she has ADMITTED to doing (she pled guilty). Who in their right mind would ever trust this bitch with anything of value. Just remember people, she fucked this guy so that she would have an opportunity to steal his money… I just wanted to put that out there, for everybody who defends her, to think about… seriously, who does that???

    by the way… Who the fuck says “On N Poppin” in real life?? seriously, are we in a rap video or something??

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  25. Lexie Martta

    What in the world happened to yo. Lexie Martta.

  26. Ondrej Manisha

    oh we didn’t care,we made it very clea. Ondrej Manisha.

  27. Joey Hadassah

    damn all these beautiful gir. Joey Hadassah.

  28. Phorcyte

    Sextortionist Jessica Wolcott Is The Bomb Diggy

  29. Phorcyte

    http://www.wyretap.us.tt

  30. Peter

    his is to the people out on this blog that is saying that my aunt had any idea about what her daughter was doing. My cousin stole her mother’s ss# and got into prosper. My aunt has had everything taken from her house because of my idiot cousin. If anyone had bothered to wonder that on prosper that the two people were the same one. My cousin is a psycopath and i can’t wait until she finally gets what she deserves.

  31. Peter

    to daa and to all that have said that they believe my aut and cousin are in on it together how about coming up here and seeing for yourself. I could care less that you were engaged to her daa. My aunt has been trying to clear her name since this has started. You have never met her daa so don’t go judging my aunt. You have no right to say that she had anything to do with it without proof. and if you were to read other pages on this.

  32. devo

    I am fed up with so many victims including myself suffering the evil of sociopaths.
    Emotional/psychological abuse is just as destructive as sexual and physical abuse, and

    will leave invisible scars that will probably never heal.
    Some victims may be vunerable enough to end in a fatality.
    Knowlege and exposure is needed. Learn the disease. Stop the abuse.
    http://soiciopath.blogspot.com/

  33. Alvador

    This advice is really going to help, thanks.

  34. Neeotron

    WoW!!! This Is The Future Of the world!!!

  35. Sheri

    I know Jessica. I went to school with her, I worked with her, my mother was friends with her mother for years. She isn’t as bad as everyone makes her out to be, but I agree that she is very smart. I have a hard time believing that her mother was her partner-in-crime however. Everyone is hurt by someone…why talk trash? By the way..I saw Jessica 2 days ago and she appears to be doing well.

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